Tuesday, October 03, 2006

Interpretations and Misinterpretations

As a note to the previous post, some replies must be made:

First of all, the views that are being expressed are solely of what I can see from the third point of view where I stand. Hence, as I always said that at some issues this is where I am looking at, and I thank all of you guys who have criticised me as such. As also, I admit that my view is rather inadequate of the issue at hand, and I apologise to the person whom I am indicating at for having any misunderstandings about her in the end. I got a very fair explanation from one of them who knows her well and I am convinced that my views has not given that person fair justice.

It seems that I have really misunderstood her, and if anything, it still seems that for the project concerned, she indeed had the passion to drive on. But being the cautious and apprehensive person that I am at times, I am the first to say that I was never convinced about her fully because I cannot understand her actions at times. Perhaps there is something under that, but I will leave things as it is. If I am being given the chance to know her side of the issue better, I am all ears. Otherwise, I apologise that my views have offended her, I admit that, but I still want to say that her actions since school reopened have confounded me at the very least, hence leading to my interpretations about her.

I have to say that that's the price because I am a very straightforward person as I comment on what I see, and I do not want to believe in rumours and explanations partly because I cannot see it. If I can see it, then it is very obvious to how a certain person can be interpreted.

I admit that my assessment of the person concerned is unfair because it is very narrow minded as it is just from my point of view, and to that I am at fault.

Another lesson on perception bias, but that will not stop me from being blunt still. Because being plain honest is the way I am, and I know that it will take a lot of me to be not straightforward. Something I must work on again and again...

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

hi i tink u shd try to change urself. n to juz say tat being plain honest is juz the way u r.. coz it is precisely the way u r.. tat's y ppl dun like u..